You have the saying "to love and loose is better to never have loved at all" but how accuret is that? Has this person actually been in love? How did they loose their love?

Love is "complicated"
A term often used in describing relationships. Its so common that they have it as a statis on facebook. Its complicated. Life is complicated.

Is life/relationships really complicated? Do they have to be? I suppose if it was all easy then our love wouldn't be tested. But why does it need to be tested? Can't we all just be in love, true deep romantic love? I used to question if that kind of love ever exsisted. Well does it?

Once you have been in love and then loose tht person, is knowing that you knew love good or is it remorseful?

Is love really that great? It's hard, and hard work. Many times its not fun and its distressing. Especially at the time of life where you're/they're trying to find yourself/themselves.

Fight. That's what I have come to. Fight for love, fight to be loved and fight to keep love. Don't let hard times determine why we love but rather, how we love. God is love. Maybe, that's the only love worth having? But even that is hard.